How ironic, I'm a (gothic) metal listener from Finland and have never liked any of the bands mentioned. Though sometimes I get the feeling I actually
should be listening to Sentenced because they're so widely appreciated and one of the few big metal bands around here. But it just never hits me. It's somehow too simple, too melodic perhaps? Well, at least the newer material (and the earlier isn't gothic :wink

... And that seems to be the case with the other options on this poll, too (except for Him, which I don't even consider as metal).